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Most people like to conclude Top Ten lists with the most impacting point,
but I need to start with this one because it truly is the #1 benefit that
I hear from clients. We toil away at work and home every day, but what
does it all add up to at the end of our lives? For those who have taken
the time to seek their personal mission, their actions have meaning and
significance. At the end of our lives, we all long to be able to say,
"I did what I was created to do. I contributed to this world in a
significant manner."
We each have many different jobs to do every day. We are parents, employees,
committee leaders, friends, spouses, and so on. But what do we contribute
in each of those circumstances? Living true to our mission provides singular
focus through all of these roles, eliminating confusion and emotional
conflicts.
Life's big decisions can be daunting? As much as we wish there was some
bell that went off signaling that you have made the correct choice each
time, there isn't. Your mission statement is the best tool to measure
any large life choices. Does it support your mission?
Just as the mission can be a measuring stick, it is also a magnet. Keeping
our mission in the front of our minds helps to eliminate unproductive
activities and puts first things first.
Your mission should be a single sentence that states what you are here
to do. You should commit it to memory and be able to recite it at gunpoint.
Having this clear concise statement available at will allows you to clearly
tell others what you can do for them. Sometimes you only have about 10
seconds to get a prospective employers attention. This should do it.
We can feel it when we are not behaving our best. At these times we tend
to justify our actions to the circumstances. A mission statement, however,
is larger than circumstances, and serves as personal commandment to re-center
ourselves on purpose.
Most of us have natural gifts and talents that we are modest about. Generally
our mission calls to use all of these skills and requires that we use
them for the benefit of others. Talents grow with use.
Life changes constantly. Sometimes we see it coming, and sometimes is
sneaks up on us almost cruelly. Whether you lose your job, or your supportive
manager is replaced with a difficult one. Whether your spouse remains
or your children are grown and out of the nest. Your mission is greater
than your role and the circumstances around it. Focusing on your mission
in times of change provides a rock of stability and forward direction
that brings peace and integrity to turbulent times.
Living in a reactive mode allows others to take the steering wheel of
our lives. While we need to respond to life, we need to respond with intention.
Living within our mission reminds us to choose the best course of action.
When we communicate our mission through words and actions, we will naturally
attract those who support it. The more your authentically live your mission,
the more those around you will be those who respect and support your actions.
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© Andrea O'Neill, 2002
If you have anything really valuable to contribute
to the world
it will come through the expression of your own personality,
that single spark of divinity that sets you off
and makes you different from every other living creature.
-- Bruce Barton
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